can we ask the question of WHY when a woman dates a string of men who ain’t shit, we always go “well, bitch, it’s you!” like, can we talk about that? because, quite honestly, even if the woman is making a “poor decision” in who she dates, why are we blaming the fucked up actions of any man on her? it’s not like there’s a single garden variety of ain’t shit. ain’t shit niggas come in more varieties than Air Jordans.
